Hate. Hating. Loving

Aloha! 
Again, i'm going to post some of my random madness(red:thought)

Have you ever feel something like 'you hate a thing so much' and it's hard to 'like' it?

Well. i considered it as a normal thing. 

Actually, if, you take a look deep down to your heart, you lied when you say "i just hate it! No reason!"
I believe you have some reasons, IF, you're honest to yourself.or, you don't know the reasons why you hate that thing


If you don't know what's your 'hating' reasons, maybe you need to figure it out

first posibility: jealousy.
Maybe you hate that thing because you can't do it or you don't have it. deep inside your heart you want it, but your ego don't wanna show that 'you want it'
as the effect, you started to hate that thing

second posibility: it disturbed you. your health, your relationships or whatever about you
However, if you're 'disturbed' by that thing, it means that you have some other reasons

third posibilty: Trauma. Bad impression. Terrible memories.
you have bad memories about it. for example, that 'thing' made you stressed out till you got depressed. or, that thing destroyed your relationship with your friend
Even tough your problem had already finished but still, you hate that thing for ever ruined your life


This long-term 'hatery' is kinda normal. but still, we should be able to control that hatery, even tough it's hard. 
Think from the other side.


If you hate a thing as the effect of jealousy.
think clearly once again.
why do you need to hate it? envy? No need to be that lame. Make yourself motivated! try to better than the on that you hate.
Or, if you hate things that you don't have, just
be thankful.
thank god for having what belongs to you. maybe you have better things, right?


AND


how, 

if you hate things as the effects of personal things? such as trauma or bad memories?

well. everybody has their own 'favourite' and 'dislikes'

it's a matter of taste.

Maybe you hate things that most people love.
So. you don't need to influence people to think the same as you. be yourself.
you don't need to make bad-fake rumors to make people dislike things that you hate
Once again, it's 'taste' okay?!

if you hate it, just hate it
however,
i suggested you all to try to love 'things that you hate' ;p

why?

hating something will makes you tired one day. believe me
hating something brought you no benefits. so? what's the use of keeping unbeneficial habit?
hating may disturbed others. whether you realize it or not, some people will dislikes you for 'hating' things that they love. 

Some will also feel unrespected, because you hate things that they like

Lastly, once again, everybody has their own different taste ;)


BUT HOW if you can't stop hating it? 

just respect other for loving things that you hate, no need to mock them
avoid looking on things that you hate because it'll only ruins your mood
keep trying to love things that you hate 
maybe, when you try to love it, you'll find it interesting!